The Blame Game

Refuse to play the "Blame Game." Often people stay stuck in "what ifs" because they can not let themselves "off the hook." They see even their present difficulties such as misbehaved children or being suddenly unemployed as further evidence that they are to blame for all their misfortunes! They think "If only I had…………then this would not have happened"" As the bestselling book "When Bad Things Happen to Good People" by Harold Kushner emphasizes, the world is not always fair and sometimes really good people get real bad breaks just because life is not often fair, not because you deserve it.