Almost all of our unhappiness is the result of comparing ourselves to others...Don't do that. You are so special. There is only one you and you have so much to offer. Start offering.

Unhappiness cannot exist on its own. It occurs because of thoughts, which can be changed

Blame is a Waste of Time

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.

- Wayne Dyer