Self-confidence and awareness are important when interacting with new people both in social and professional situations. If you do not have strong self awareness you will miss out on many great connections. Your reactions to unfavorable events are connected to your own personal view of how these events will negatively or positively affect your life.You must take a positive proactive approach to changing the things in your life that you do not desire to see continued. Rather than speaking negatively over them, choose instead to take action that will lead to your desired result, all while believing that you will indeed be able to successfully reach your goal